Negotiating for What You Want
Last update: 21 August 2002

 
Obtaining an interview is only half the battle of securing the job you want. Your written application may have opened the door for you, but to complete the process of selling yourself to a prospective employer, you also need to make a favorable and memorable impression in the job interview—or interviews. Organizations are usually able to select from a number of qualified applicants. Why should they choose you? You need to know some of the reasons that you should be the one hired, and you need to present those reasons to the persons who interview you.

Also, you need to be able to use the interview process to determine whether an organization is right for you. The interview is also the time for you to begin the process of negotiating for those things you believe necessary to ensure that you will be satisfied with an organization once you are hired. The combination of the interview—or interviews—and your postinterview correspondence are your opportunity to negotiate for what you really want.

The First Interview

By the time of your interview, the company has usually narrowed the candidates to the few who seem most attractive. Some of your competition for the job has been eliminated. Those who remain, however, will be among those whose qualifications are most like your own. The interview helps the employer explore qualifications that may not show up in written applications, such as attitude toward work, sense of humor, interest in a particular job or company, willingness to cooperate with others, and other personality traits.

A successful interview depends as much on what you do before the interview as on what you do during it. An interviewee who is well-prepared has much more control over the interview than one who is poorly prepared.

Be Organized

If your letter of application and resume are successful in obtaining you an invitation to an interview, you will probably receive that invitation by telephone, by email, or in a letter asking you to call and arrange for an appointment. However you receive the information, you need to be prepared:

  1. Keep a copy of your resume and a list of the organizations to which you have sent applications near your phone. The list should contain the name and title of the person to whom you addressed your letter, the name and address of the organization, and the specific job for which you have applied. Also, unless you are absolutely sure, the list should contain a few notes about the organization and its products or services.

  2. If you have call-waiting, cancel it. Increasing numbers of organizations are conducting the first interview entirely by telephone, and having your interview interrupted by call-waiting is a sure way to annoy the interviewer.

  3. Safeguard against possible memory loss by having a pen and note pad handy. Take notes during the conversation. Make sure that you record the information correctly. More than one qualified job applicant has shown up at the wrong company at the wrong time, so make absolutely sure that you know who, what, when, and where before you hang up the phone. Make sure that you have the person’s correct name and title, and listen carefully for the correct pronunciation of his or her name.

  4. Be flexible. If the day or time the person suggests for an interview is not possible for you, show flexibility in finding a time that will be convenient for both of you.

  5. Express appreciation. Be sure to thank the person for inviting you. Courtesy counts. Whether you recognize it or not, the interview begins with that first telephone contact. The impression you make on the phone will carry over and influence the impression you make in person. Even if you have already decided to accept another position, you can never tell when and where you might encounter and need to rely on that person again.

Do Your Homework

Although you will have conducted some research of the organizations to which you have applied, you will need to do more before you actually have your interview. The more you know about the organization, the better off you will be. In addition to knowing the location of the organizations main plants and offices, you would do well to know the following additional details:

  1. Does the organization have subsidiaries or branches? If so, what, and where are they? What is the relationship among the organization and its various parts?

  2. What are the organization’s products and services? If you didn’t know before, make sure you know before the interview.

  3. What are the organization’s growth patterns and its prospects for the future? Has the organization been growing or downsizing? If publicly held, has its stock been increasing in value, decreasing, or holding steady?

  4. What has been written about the organization in the past two or three years? Check especially The Wall Street Journal Index and the Business Periodicals Index.

  5. Does the organization have a web site? If so, make sure that you review the site and become familiar with its contents.

  6. What is the organization’s style of management? Does it encourage continued education? Does it provide the training necessary for promotion from within? Are most mid- and higher-level managers long-term employees?

  7. What salaries are typical of people with your educational background and work experience who are starting work with this and similar organizations? You need to know both the range (low to high) and the mode (the most frequent number).

  8. What exactly will you do for the organization? If the job for which you are interviewing has an unusual title, check the Dictionary of Occupational Titles to see what the job involves. Be prepared to discuss typical job duties and your ability to perform them.

As you do this research, prepare a list of questions you would like to ask the interviewer. Be sure to avoid asking anything you should already know about the organization from having read its annual report, articles written about it, and materials posted on its web site. Ask instead about things of interest that you learned from reading about the organization. Also ask about things that would naturally interest you: the training program, the way the job you would be doing fits with the organization as a whole, and the normal career path for someone hired in the type of job for which you are applying.

You may also ask specific job-related questions concerning your duties and responsibilities, the computer hardware and software you will be using, laboratory equipment, the flow of work activity, and other job-related questions not clear from what you have read about the organization and the job.

Avoid asking about salary. If the interviewer asks you what salary you require or what you are expecting, specify a range that emphasizes the high end of what your research indicates is common for people in your occupational area. Also, a new employee should be more interested in the job and working conditions than in his or her first vacation, so avoid asking when you will be eligible for your first vacation.

First Impressions

Prepare yourself for the day of the interview. Get a good night’s sleep, and avoid excessive alcohol consumption the night before the interview. Because some alcohol will remain in your bloodstream, it may be detected on your breath or as body odor, and many interviewers will find that odor offensive.

Allow plenty of time to prepare for your interview. Appearance always counts—be neat and clean. Professional employment officers report that they often make their decisions on whether to hire a particular person on the basis of appearance alone, and poor personal appearance is one of the most often cited reasons for rejecting an applicant. The image you present says a great deal about you and about the way you will fit in to a particular organization.

When possible, find out before the interview how current employees of the organization dress. Most organizations still prefer their employees to present a conservative image, and most interviewers expect the interview to be more formal than normal working conditions. For this reason, when you do not know how employees dress, it is better to guess on the conservative side than to present too informal an appearance.

Your psychological appearance is also important. Many other reasons for rejecting applicants are based on the psychological impression applicants make. The following are common mistakes:

The Meeting

Be punctual. Plan your travel so that you can arrive 10 to 15 minutes early. If you are wearing a hat, remember to remove it when you enter the building. Also, if you are chewing gum or smoking a cigarette (or both), dispose of the gum or cigarette before entering the building, and dispose of it appropriately. Remember that someone may be observing you and those who work in the building will not look favorably on you if you spit gum or drop your cigarette in their parking lot or on their sidewalk.

Be prepared. Have extra copies of your resume (both scannable and traditional) available, and have your notes on the job for which you are interviewing. You may take notes during the interview, but keep them brief. You can fill in details when the interview is over. For some occupations, a portfolio of your work is required. For others it will be helpful. You do not need to show your work unless it is asked for, but it’s better to have it and not be asked than to be asked and not have it.

When you arrive at the office, introduce yourself to the secretary or receptionist. Be aware that in many organizations, the secretary, receptionist, or whoever greets you will be providing a summary of your interaction for those who will make the hiring decision. While waiting, observe the physical surroundings and office environment. Is it a place where you would enjoy working?

When the interviewer (or panel of interviewers) is ready for you, the receptionist may direct you to the appropriate office, or the interviewer may come directly to you. In either case, when you first meet with the interviewer, greet him or her—by name if you already know it—and extend your hand for a handshake. If you are uncertain about the custom of shaking hands in U.S. culture, find someone who understands the custom and practice. The hands should meet comfortably, and the grip should be firm but not overly tight. In general, your grip should match that of the other person. Most people in the U.S. will expect you to maintain eye contact during the handshake, which should last no longer than two or three seconds.

Do not sit down until you are asked. This is a good time to remember everything you have been taught about good posture. Sit up straight, and look alert. Maintain appropriate eye contact, and smile. Make sure that the interviewer has a good copy of your resume. If you have been selected for the interview on the basis of a scannable resume, and you also have one designed for human reading, provide the interviewer with a copy of that one as well.

The Interview

A successful interview follows a particular pattern planned by the interviewer, although the structure must be flexible enough to allow for some unscheduled discussion. The interview itself consists of four parts: the opening, the body, the close, and the follow-up. The opening is designed to make the purpose of the interview clear, and because the purpose is clear in a job interview, the opening will be brief.

The body of the interview is that portion in which the participants exchange pertinent information by means of questions and answers. The main requirements for success are careful listening and clearly worded statements. Remember that the interview works both ways: the interviewer has the opportunity to evaluate you, and you have the opportunity to evaluate the organization.

The close of the interview provides the interviewer with an opportunity to review and summarize the key points. If you have not had an opportunity to ask questions in the body of the interview, the close is your chance to do so. The close also needs to clarify the next step: the interviewer should provide at least an estimate of the time by when you can expect a decision, and it would be appropriate to ask if he or she does not.

The first interview for most jobs is a screening interview and will take about 30 minutes. Be alert to terminating signs from the interviewer; take the hint and prepare to leave. Thank the interviewer, and leave graciously. Thank the secretary or receptionist on your way out as well.

Types of Questions

Because all interviews consist of a series of questions and answers, the success of an interview depends primarily on the kinds of questions asked. The serious nature of an interview makes it a potentially threatening situation for many people, so the interviewer must be especially careful to create and maintain an open communication climate if he or she wishes to elicit clear, accurate information. Certain kinds of questions help establish an open communication climate that encourages communication; other kinds of questions cut communication off. The following are the principal leading questions:

Unlike the previous types of questions, some questions tend to discourage open communication. Loaded questions, forced-choice questions, double-bind questions, and why-didn’t-you questions are the most common closed-climate questions:

If you are asked a closed-climate question, assume that the interviewer is either testing you to see how you will respond or has simply asked the question inadvertently. Respond as though he or she has asked an equivalent open-climate question: “At the time, I didn’t have the negotiation skills to resolve that issue. Since then I have learned....” “My grades are not as good as I would have liked, but I’m proud of the fact that I was able to work full time while attending school, and I still completed my degree in four years.”

Commonly Asked Job-Interview Questions

The job-interview questions asked most frequently have remained remarkably similar for the past 25 years or so. In one form or another, you are sure to be asked several of the questions from the following list, and you should think about how you would answer each of them before you go to your first interview.

Students often want to know the right answer to these questions, but the right answer is the honest answer. If you tell the interviewer what you think he or she wants to hear, you may persuade him or her to hire you for a job for which you are not well-suited. Your objective should be to be hired for a job that will prove a good fit, one in which you can make both yourself and the organization happy.

Personal Questions

Questions about Education

Questions about Work

Questions about Ethics

Questions for the Interviewer

Before the close of the interview, you will be provided an opportunity to ask questions of the interviewer. Be prepared to ask. Interviewers consider it a negative sign if you have no questions about the job, the organization, or the industry. Use your questions to show what you do know about the organization and the industry.

Other questions you might ask include the following:

Stress Interviews and Illegal Questions

What would you say if the interviewer simply said, “Go ahead and start”? Or if the interviewer simply sat and waited, saying nothing? Although the current job market favors job applicants, when the job market is tight, or when an organization has a number of excellent candidates from which to choose, some interviewers deliberately employ techniques that will prevent you from using the answers you have rehearsed for the questions asked most often.

The theory behind stress interviews is that they force the applicant to think quickly and permit the interviewer to see the candidate as she or he really is. Certainly stress interviews will reveal how well you deal with the unexpected, and almost certainly they will be uncomfortable—if not thoroughly unpleasant. The following questions are typical of those designed to produce stress:

One of the main things to remember about stress interviews is that staying calm and rational is more important than anything you say or do. Be prepared to emphasize your strengths. Be well-prepared with stories that illustrate these strengths by showing how you have applied them in the past. Consider a “Go ahead and start” statement to be the same as the “Tell me a bit about yourself” question, and begin to sell yourself.

If you are greeted by silence, simply ask the interviewer if she or he is ready to begin. If you receive no response, say that you assume that she or he is using silence as a stress technique, and then begin selling yourself. Remember that there are no “right” answers in stress interviews, except the one from the old deodorant commercial, “Never let them see you sweat.”

If you are asked an offensive question, politely decline to answer it. Remember, too, that the interview is an opportunity for you to evaluate the organization and the people who work for it. If the interviewer who has been selected to represent his or her organization is obnoxious and disrespectful, what will the rest of the organization be like? If the person is too offensive, leave. No law says that you must remain. You may tell the interviewer that you find his or her technique offensive, but avoid the temptation to be offensive in return. Keep your cool, and maintain your self-respect.

Illegal Interview Questions

Affirmative Action guidelines have put certain limits on the kinds of questions interviewers are permitted to ask. Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, “Equal Employment Opportunity,” and Title IX of The Education Amendments of 1972, “Prohibition of Sex Discrimination,” both limit the information organizations may request before hiring an applicant.

The following questions, for example, are all illegal before employment because answers to them may be used to discriminate against an applicant because of race, age, sex, religion, or place of national origin.

  1. What is your maiden name?

  2. Have you ever been employed while using another name?

  3. What is your marital status?

  4. Where were you born? When were you born? How old are you?

  5. Can you work Saturdays? Sundays? (Legal if the job requires it.)

  6. What organizations, associations, clubs, societies, and fraternities do you belong to?

  7. Other than your immediate family, what are the names of three of your relatives?

  8. What is the name of your nearest relative whom we can notify in case of an emergency?

  9. Where did you learn to read, write, or speak a foreign language?

  10. Have you ever been arrested for a crime? If yes, where?

  11. What are the names of your dependent children under 18 years of age?

  12. Who will take care of your minor children while you work?

  13. What is the minimum salary you would accept?

  14. How tall are you? What is your weight?

  15. Were your wages ever garnished?

  16. Are you a homeowner?

  17. Do you own a car? (Legal if the job requires it.)

  18. Do you have charge accounts? How much do you owe on them?

  19. Where is your spouse employed?

  20. Please submit a recent photograph of yourself.

Some of the information these questions would produce may be required after employment for a variety of reasons, but before the applicant is hired, these questions are illegal. Not all interviewers, however, are sufficiently informed of the law to avoid all illegal questions.

Some illegal questions may occur naturally in the course of your conversation with the interviewer. If, for example, you say that you and your husband have recently moved to town, the interviewer might naturally ask, “What does your husband do?” If you mention that you are fluent in Spanish, the interviewer might naturally ask where you learned to speak the language.

If you are asked an illegal question, attempt to determine the intent behind the question. Is the interviewer asking so that she or he can perhaps pay you less than another person would receive, or is she or he simply trying to conduct a friendly interview? If you are concerned about how the information will be used, ask. Express your concern in a straightforward way and remain friendly.

Poor Interview Questions

In addition to asking illegal questions inadvertently, some untrained interviewers will simply ask poor questions. You may encounter an interviewer who phrases questions so that you are encouraged to answer “yes” or “no” rather than provide the kinds of complete answers that would help you sell yourself. If this happens, answer the question the interviewer should have asked rather than the one actually asked.

If asked this: Answer this:
Are you qualified for this job? What have you accomplished that illustrates your qualifications for this job?
Can you accept criticism? How do you respond to criticism? Can you give me some specific examples?
Do you have leadership skills? What have you done that illustrates your leadership skills? Do the groups to which you belong look to you for leadership? Why do you think this is so?
Do you get along with others? What is your interpersonal style? How do you handle interpersonal conflict?
Did you enjoy your job at XYZ? What did you like about your job at XYZ?
Are you ambitious? What are your goals? What does success mean to you?

The Second Interview

Some hiring decisions for entry-level jobs are based on one interview. Most organizations, however, prefer to use the initial interview—especially when it was conducted by a recruiter on a college campus—as a screening technique. They use it to eliminate candidates so that the final decision can be based on more intensive interviews with the most qualified applicants.

Second interviews may last several hours and many include a tour of the facility, a meal, or both. The longer time allows both you and your prospective employer an excellent opportunity to see what the other is like. The time limitation of first interviews does not permit an extensive exploration of many of the factors that will contribute to your success in the organization. By the time of the second interview, the organization is fairly well convinced that you have the technical qualifications to perform (or to learn to perform) the job for which you are applying. The second interview will tell them whether your social skills, attitude toward work, attitude toward the organization, and adaptability will make you an asset to the organization.

Social Skills

Second interviews test your skills at meeting people—learning and remembering names, being cordial with and accepting of others, and answering questions from a variety of people. Social manners—and mannerisms—are important.

While you will not be expected to remember everyone’s name and job title after brief introductions, be prepared to learn the names and titles of several people during the course of the interview. Those interviewing will watch to see how well you interact with others. Do you wait until others are through speaking, or do you interrupt? Do you use eye contact to make all members of the group feel included? Do you hold the door for others or let it slam behind you?

If your interview includes a meal, your table manners will also be important. Are you able to eat and carry on a conversation at the same time? Do you talk with your mouth full? Do you hold your utensils correctly? Your social skills at the table will tell your interviewers a great deal about you and your ability to fit into the organization. If you are insecure about your table manners, consult a book on etiquette and practice good table manners until they become automatic.

If you have not had much restaurant experience, it would be helpful for you to have lunch or dinner at two or three of your area’s better restaurants. Go with a group of friends who will also be interviewing, wear the clothes you plan to wear to the interview, and help each other with etiquette. Discuss current events, the economy, and other factors concerning the business climate. Ask each other questions about the kind of work you plan to do following graduation.

Attitude Toward Work

The second interview will also give the interviewers a good opportunity to explore your attitude toward work. Organizations would rather hire people who work primarily because they want to work and only secondarily because they have to. Your degree of interest in your previous jobs and in the kind of work for which you are applying will be important indicators of your attitude toward work.

Ask yourself which of your previous jobs you enjoyed the most and why, what job you would enjoy doing the most if you could do anything you wanted to, and how much you enjoyed taking classes in your major area of study. People who have enjoyed previous jobs, have specific ideas about the kind of work they enjoy the most, and have enjoyed academic preparation for a particular career are more likely than others to continue to enjoy working and learning new skills.

Attitude Toward the Organization

An organization will also be interested in your attitude toward it. How familiar are you with its products or services? Do you have faith in the quality of the organization’s products or services? (Did you drive a General Motors car to your interview at the Ford Motor Company?)

Doing your homework before a second interview is critical because the interviewers will have a longer time to explore your degree of interest in the organization. You will be expected to hold up your end of the conversation about the organization’s products or services. Your interviewers will infer your attitude based on the quality of your answers to their questions and the questions you ask them about their operations, policies, products, or services.

Adaptability

By the time of the second interview, your technical skills in a particular job area will probably be assumed, and the organization will want to explore your promotability. As you move up the ladder in any organization, the skills required for success on the job will change. Generally speaking, the path of promotion will take you from (1) doing the work, to (2) supervising others who do the work, to (3) planning how the work should be done, to (4) deciding what work should be done.

As you are promoted from one job level to another, your duties will become less specific and less concerned with technique and more general and more concerned with people. During the second interview, your interviewers will try to determine whether you have the human relations potential for success at higher job levels. The following are some negative behaviors that interviewers often use to eliminate people from further consideration:

The following attitudes indicate your adaptability and thus your promotability:

Job Application Forms

Somewhere along the way to being hired, you will need to complete an application form. You may do this before or after either the first or second interview. While the forms you will encounter may vary from organization to organization and from industry to industry, they all serve the same purpose. In addition to providing needed information, they show the company whether you are able to follow directions in a neat, orderly way.

The forms seem simple enough, yet countless people make mistakes in completing them and consequently are refused further consideration for particular jobs. In completing job application forms, be sure to

  1. Read the instructions carefully and follow all directions. For example, note whether the form asks for reverse chronological order for your job history, and, if so, be sure to list your most recent job first. If the form asks you to print, be sure to print rather than using cursive writing.

  2. Answer every question, even when the answer may be none or not applicable.

  3. Be specific. Especially for broad categories, such as type of work and subjects of special study, have definite answers in mind. For questions about expected salary, make sure that you know your market value.

  4. Spell correctly. Know how to spell the names of your previous employers and your references. You may be required to complete the job application form as part of the first or second interview, so be prepared.

Postinterview Activities

The objective of the job application package, consisting of the cover letter and resume, is to secure an interview. The objectives of the interview are to determine whether you want the job, to secure it if you want it, and to begin the process of negotiating for what you desire. Naturally, if your first application package does not secure the interview and you are very interested in working for that organization, you should send a second letter of application and resume to demonstrate your seriousness.

While your second letter requesting an interview should be essentially the same as the first (especially if several months have elapsed), you should mention that you are writing a second time because of your serious interest in the organization and your belief that you can make a significant contribution to its ability to achieve its objectives. Even though one objective of the interview is to secure the job for you, your task is not over with the interview. You should pursue your objective until you have been hired, rejected, or have decided that you would be better off working for another company.

Correspondence after both the first and second interviews has one or more of the following objectives:

  1. To bring your name to the attention of the interviewer one more time.

  2. To improve your interviewer’s opinion of you by

    • Expressing appreciation for the interview.
    • Overcoming deficiencies discovered during the interview.
    • Offering new information to strengthen your application.

  3. To express continued interest in a particular job.

  4. To find out more about a particular job or organization.

  5. To negotiate for

    • More money.
    • More time to decide about an offer.
    • A change in some aspect of the job.
    • A more rapid decision about your job status.

  6. To accept a job offer.

  7. To refuse a job offer.

Thank-you Letters

Thank-you letters are the most frequent of the follow-up letters. Every interview you have, regardless of whether you still want the job or of how you were treated in the interview, deserves to be followed with a letter of thanks. Thank-you letters can be either simple or complex, depending on how much work they need to do. When you are no longer interested in the job, you could, for example, simply write the following:

When you still want the job and the interview went well (that is, you are fairly convinced that the organization will offer you the job), a short thank-you letter expressing your continued interest will suffice. It is more often the case, however, that you will need to improve your interviewer’s opinion of you either by overcoming deficiencies that were discovered during the interview or by offering some new information that you believe will strengthen your application. In such cases, you will need to write a complex follow-up letter, which is essentially a negotiation.

Use the following organizational pattern:

The sample follow-up letter illustrates these points.

Inquiries and Negotiations

While your initial thank-you letter following the interview may easily and naturally contain questions about aspects of the job that you were not able to ask during the interview, it is more difficult to write a letter (after the initial thank-you letter) with no purpose other than to ask further questions about the job or to negotiate with a prospective employer for more money, more time to decide about taking a job, a change in some aspect of the job, or a more rapid decision about your application.

Some people may feel that requesting more information about an organization or a particular job may be viewed as criticism. Actually, the reverse is true. As long as your inquiry is legitimate—about something you should know before accepting a job with that organization or about something for which the information is not readily available elsewhere (the organization’s annual report or web pages, for example), asking will demonstrate your real interest in the organization and place your name before the interviewer one more time. Treat inquiries about job matters the same as you would other inquiries, and use the organizational pattern presented in the section on obtaining information.

Negotiations also present problems. Every negotiation is a risk, and when you negotiate, you should be prepared to lose. By asking for more money or a change in job duties, for example, you run the risk of not getting what you want and creating resentment in your reader that will reduce your chances of getting the job at all. For this reason, most letters of negotiation need to include enough positive information to prevent the writer from losing what she or he has already gained. Suppose, for example, you received the following letter:

You really want to work for this organization, but other good organizations have made you more definite and attractive offers already, and they require your answer by mid-June. How do you answer the letter? Here is how one student handled this situation:

Note that the student does not explicitly state that the situation requires an either/or decision. The letter implies that if the Steele Company does not make a definite job offer by early June, the student will have to accept one of the other job offers. This illustrates one of the basic premises of negotiations: you cannot negotiate unless you have something with which to negotiate.

When you negotiate for more money, you must be able to offer tangible evidence that you are worth more money. When you negotiate for more time to decide about a job or for a change in some aspect of the job duties, you must be able to provide evidence to support the worthiness of your request. And in all cases, do not negotiate unless you are prepared to lose.

Job-Acceptance Letters

Job-acceptance letters rarely present problems. They should begin with the acceptance of the job. Because the letter offering the job and the letter accepting it will constitute a contract, you need to make sure that you understand exactly what is being offered before you accept. Also, your letter of acceptance should include those aspects of the job, its responsibilities and its rewards that you consider essential parts of the offer. The sample job-acceptance letter illustrates these points.

Job-Refusal Letters

Job-refusal letters are negative messages and employ many of the strategies of other negative messages (see Writing Negative Messages). The reader will undoubtedly have other qualified applicants to choose from, but his or her feelings can still be hurt by your refusal. Try to keep the reader on your side. Base your refusal on reasons that leave the door open for possible future employment with the organization, and express continued interest in the firm. Do not, however, imply that you may at some later date leave the organization whose offer you are accepting. The sample job-refusal letter illustrates these points.

Letters of Resignation

Like job-refusal letters, job-resignation letters are negative messages and use the same basic strategies as those shown in the section on Writing Negative Messages. In most cases, you will announce your resignation orally, and the letter will be useful primarily as a matter of record. Even when your employer knows in advance that you are resigning, you should use the letter to help retain good feelings between you and your employer in spite of the fact that you are resigning. You can do this by including the following components:

 


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