SHARED JOURNEYS AND BORDER CROSSINGS: 

WHEN 'THEY' BECOMES 'WE' 

Gerald Pillsbury[1]

Assistant Professor,

Education and Professional Development

Western Michigan University

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and

Carolyn M. Shields

Associate Professor

Educational Studies

The University of British Columbia

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Email: Carolyn.shields@ubc.ca

Running Head: When “They” Becomes “We” ...
Whether meant metaphorically or more literally, in the last quarter of the 20th Century, “community” has proven to be a compelling idea for social scientists.Educators looking to reform current educational practices (Greene, 1995; Kerr, 1996; Lave and Wenger, 1991) have been turning with increasing frequency to the work of those who have written eloquently about the socially constructed nature of our lives (Bruner, 1990; Bryk & Driscoll, 1988; Gergen, 1991; Greenfield, 1975; MacIntyre, 1985; Wertsch, 1991) and to those who posit the need for educational organizations to become communities of learners (Beck, 1994; Fullan 1993, Noddings 1992, Sergiovanni, 1994).But like any concept that gains political currency, community has acquired multiple layers of meanings, so much so that the term may now hide more than it reveals. 

In their articles, both Furman (1996) and Beck and Kratzer (1995) have carefully reviewed the extant literature and delineated some of most commonly accepted characteristics of community.They found that most writers rely heavily on the concept which Sergiovanni (1994) describes as “centers of values, sentiments, and beliefs that provide the needed conditions for creating a sense of we from a collection of Is” (p. 27).He, like many others, bases his work, in part, on the work of Tonnies (1971) which contrasted gesellschaft, “the modern formal organization [in which] relationships are formal and distant,” with gemeinschaft, that community of kinship, place or mind which binds people together in “webs of meaning ... by creating a sense of belonging and a common identity” (Sergiovanni, p. 219). 

An alternative, more encompassing, and in our opinion more compelling, conception of community has recently emerged, one based not on similarity and shared beliefs and values, but on the notion of difference (Carr, 1986; Shields & Seltzer, 1997; Tierney, 1993) or otherness (Furman, 1998; Kristeva, 1991).Although the concept has not always been made explicit, the new understanding of community requires, as some have done (Bryk, Lee, & Holland, 1993; Coleman & Hofer, 1987; Peshkin, 1986) that proponents pay serious attention to the phenomenon of boundary creation.

The notion of boundaries as the “dark side of community” was identified by Noddings (1996).However, the mechanisms by which boundaries are erected and maintained to the detriment of a more inclusive sense of community or by which such boundaries might become permeable remain relatively unexplored.Anderson (1990) urged researchers to find ways to study the “invisible and unobtrusive forms of control that are exercised in schools and school districts” (p. 39), to elicit stories from respondents, and to submit these stories to close narrative analysis in order to help to understand how respondents make “sense of and give meaning to their experiences” (Mischler, cited in Anderson, p. 51). 

Our goal in this paper is to use several stories and activities drawn from various ethnographic studies in which we have been involved, as a starting point for considering how communities of otherness might actually develop in school settings.Thus, the paper is not an empirical study, but is a preliminary exploration and examination of common school practices that might encourage or discourage the construction of a community in which differences are recognized and respected rather than constituted as barriers.Because we subscribe to the constructivist understanding that “social reality is constructed out of ongoing social interaction” (Anderson, 1990, p. 40), we examine how respondents’ descriptions of interaction in schools create a sense of self and community.The created understanding may appear either rigid, exclusive, and exclusionary or it may be one which is more fluid, allowing at least temporarily inclusion of “otherness” into one’s definitions of self and community.

One avenue into this exploration of the meaning of otherness in community is language, particularly careful study of the use of personal pronouns.Indeed, an approach to self through semiotics is the one pioneered by James (1890) and Mead (1932), and more recently favored by such disparate writers as Crapanzano (1982, 1990), Ochs (1990), Ricouer (1992) and Shaw (1994).Giroux (1997) suggests that “how we understand and come to know ourselves cannot be separated from how we are represented and how we imagine ourselves” (p.15).Thus, we extend the examination of our data beyond explicit use of personal pronouns to reflect constructions that imply such pronouns in order to better understand how self and other are represented.

While difference is often constituted in terms of 'we' versus 'they', at certain times, under certain conditions, consciously or unconsciously, we move between self and other: 'we' becomes 'they' or 'they' 'we' (Crapanzano, 1982, 1990).The authors of this paper recognize that there are times when the social construction of both categories may be potentially beneficial; indeed, we believe that occasional or temporary consideration of another person or group as the other is not the real source of social disruptions such as injustices, inequalities, and indifference.Rather, we posit that barriers to community are constructed when movement between self and other, between 'we' and 'they,' is obstructed.In other words, borders are not the difficulty; it is the inflexibility and tenacity with which they are created and asserted that creates problems.We suggest that the beneficial qualities often associated with community may actually arise only when the boundaries of community allow, and other forces encourage, members’ unhindered movement between self and other.Expanding upon Buber's (1958) inclusive I and Thou which stipulates that community can only exist if persons mutually and unconditionally care for one another, and the familiar self-reflection, "There but for the grace of God go I," we argue that community becomes dynamic and inclusive (and hence, perhaps more desirable) when it encourages every member to find the self in the other and the other in the self. 

We first present some examples of how language has been used in a number of school situations to represent and sometimes to create what we are calling ‘we-they’ situations.In some of these, the situations have been constructed as barriers that present difficulties for those wishing to negotiate a border crossing and to move into a new sense of community; in other instances, the participants appear to have opened the borders between ‘we’ and ‘they’ and invited others into a community of difference.The examples used to illustrate rigidity or movement between 'we' and 'they' are culled from field notes, interview transcripts, surveys, documents, and observations compiled during five ethnographic studies in which we have been engaged separately during the past six years.One of these investigations examined college basketball teams over two seasons.Another looked at first graders' participation in various school and social groups.A third studied, over six years, schools serving predominantly Native American students.The last two identified school practices which helped to involve students in an empowering manner in learning and school life.Each of the examples chosen for this paper raises issues of borders related to race and ethnicity.We thus ignore many other types of borders that exist and indeed, are constructed, within our educational institutions.Following the presentation of a series of examples, we examine some forces that either facilitate and enhance, or obstruct and distort, the possibility of movement between ‘we’ and ‘they’, i.e., between the communal self and the communal other – movement we affirm is necessary for the development of a sense of community in which difference is acknowledged and respected. 

Rigidity: Creating Barriers Between Self and Others

One of the most graphic examples of creating a barrier between one group of people and another came from a teacher in a small school serving predominantly Navajo students.The staff had spent the afternoon engaged in a workshop with the stated purpose of trying to discover why students, despite several years of concerted effort on the part of teachers to help them to be ‘successful”[2] were still achieving below the 10th percentile on a nationally-normed standardized achievement test.Following the workshop, one of the teachers commented, “These students are just not hungry enough.We prepare a smorgasbord for them but they just don’t eat.”When one author suggested that perhaps the food was not appetizing or that it might not be food that was desired by these patrons, the respondent persisted, “No, the food is fine; they are just not hungry.”The teacher continued, “I don’t need to change.What I do is fine; they just do not want to learn.”Less than 10 minutes later, the teacher tended his resignation to his principal.Acknowledging that he had long been struggling to gain student respect and to have them attain academic success, he indicated that he no longer wanted to struggle against the odds and remain in teaching.In his comments, the use of the pronouns ‘I,’ ‘we,’ and ‘they’ appears to be a way of erecting an impermeable or unalterable border, one that denies teacher responsibility for student learning and which relegates blame totally to the students perceived as recalcitrant and unmotivated.

Another instance in which such separation may be perceived as a form of racism comes from an incident that occurred between a teacher with over fifteen years of experience and her first grade class.The teacher halted the afternoon lesson and called an unscheduled recess, leading the class (in which approximately 40% of the students were African American) out the back door to the playground.Here, she instructed four “misbehaving” African American boys not to talk among themselves, but rather to watch from a bench while the others played their various games.If one projects oneself into the boys' position, it is hard not to construct the experience as 'we' (the 'bad' ones, the selected four) vs. 'they' (the 'good' ones, the others).Further, given the deliberate nature of the act, it is difficult not to think this 'we' vs. 'they' construction was the overt intention of the teacher who subsequently explained her actions as teaching them to realize the consequences of their misbehavior. 

Another instance in which a 'we' vs. 'they' construction was clearly established comes from the data on one Canadian secondary school.In that community, changing area demographics had resulted in a rapid shift in the student population from one which was predominantly Caucasian to one which was about 50% Asian.There, both teachers and students talked about how the student body divided along racial lines.One teacher stated:

Many of the recent arrivals from Asia seem to come from money and what you get is the segregated cafeteria and segregated parking, so it’s the Asian students who park along [the front] and the Caucasian students who park along [the side].So there’s an interesting segregation there; and of course the wealthier cars tend to be [at the front].

Students’ statements supported the perception of divisions: “If you walk down the hall at lunch you see the Orientals sitting in one place and the white people sitting in another and in the classroom, in my math class, two rows on the right hand side are all white and the rest are all Oriental.”Respondents also told us that since the Asian students ate and studied in the cafeteria, the Caucasian students tended to eat lunch sitting in the halls and did not have a place to study.Many of the extra-curricular activities tended to be divided along racial lines; and there were even two informal smoking areas, one for Asians, the other for whites.While these respondents tended to enact the pronouns ‘we’ and ‘they’ rather than verbalize them, the separation of groups created barriers that inhibited the development of a sense of community within the school.

The construct of 'we' and 'they' surfaced in other situations with the potential to have a direct impact on student learning.An African American parent participating in one of our studies affirmed unequivocally that teachers in her neighborhood school both talk about and treat her daughter differently from her Caucasian classmates.In another school, designated as “inner city," teachers often stated that students in their classes were from ‘at-risk' home cultures characterized by divorce, poverty, or abuse, and hence that they were unable to learn or keep up to those with more advantageous home situations. “We can’t teach them anything until they develop some self-esteem,” said one teacher. 

Such exclusive 'we'-'they' oppositions were not limited to perceptions of students in this school; our teachers often so objectified parents.One spoke about having ordered new couches for the school foyer to attract parents, because “if they don’t have a place where they can feel comfortable, they won’t come.”Later, the school principal described an unstructured evening event, a dinner that was provided by the teachers for the parents.He reported that following the dinner, he had thought he might introduce all of the teachers, but then had decided that introductions would not work because he had been convinced no one would listen.His explanation was that “the school is unstructured because you can’t superimpose structure, because they [the parents] don’t understand it.”

We found a similar attitude, characterized by what might be termed learned helplessness on the part of students at that same school, reflected in the perception that because 'we' are poor, we need care by a richer ‘they.’One sixth grade girl reflected on equity issues, arguing that most people should help the poorer schools improve.“If I was a big government person who worked for all the schools, that’s what I’d do.I’d say, ‘well you’ve got so much and they’ve got so little; maybe the kids aren’t as smart there as the ones here but they still need a better area to be around.’” 

One further example suggests that separations such as we have been presenting may become well-entrenched habits of selective vision.Brian, the captain and only black player on his basketball team, described walking into a Sizzler restaurant in Atlanta with his teammates. 

I walk in and I go, ‘You guys notice anything different?’They're like ... they look around.They go, ‘No.’I go ’You notice the fact that all the black people are sitting on one side of this restaurant and all the whites are sitting on another.’They go, ‘Yeah, you're right.’So I go, ‘Don't these things click into you?’I mean for me it was automatic.

The illustrations above are but a few of the many examples we found of ‘we’ constructs constituting barriers to border crossing or community.Indeed, although we found considerably more examples of these than of the opposite, we move now to describe some examples of times when there was movement between the sense of ‘we’ and ‘they’ or at least potential for such movement, as suggested by Brian’s attempt to educate his teammates to recognize separations of ‘we’ from ‘they.’

Finding Self in the Other and the Other in Self

Many of our examples of movement between self and others are somewhat tentative, perhaps to some extent even unconscious efforts on the part of students and teachers.Yet, we believe that they contain clues about how to encourage conscious and explicit movement from uncompromising ‘we’-’they’ distinctions to those which are fluid and temporary in nature, distinctions which may have the potential to create more educative and democratic[3] communities.

In the following examples, we find evidence that some students attempt to understand the socially constructed barriers they encounter on a regular basis.Consider the statements of a group of students from the Canadian secondary school whose divisions along ethnic lines were described earlier.Some comments from a discussion about whether all students should be obliged to speak English provide evidence that, while some could explain the separation, they also wanted the barrier to be overcome in order for a heightened sense of community to develop.A First Nations student[4] stated (somewhat poignantly) that if she could speak the language of her band, she would want to do so at school too.A Caucasian student commented that when you go to “the cafeteria and there’s a lot more Asian people there together, it’s understandable that when you go to another country you would want to talk to people who are from your country.”A third student acknowledged cultural obstructions to border crossing: 

In this school are immigrants from Asia, Taiwan, Hong Kong, where you go to school to learn and nothing more than that.You go to class, shut up, write everything down, memorize, do the test, then leave school.... They do what they did before and we can’t explain it because it’s a different culture.

Some students seemed to encounter greater difficulties in understanding the behavior of the ‘others.’A few, for example, argued that speaking a home language was only acceptable if one could not also speak fluent English.Other comments, perhaps slightly more sympathetic, still revealed the difficulty of expanding the concept of self.Talking about the presence of English as a Second Language (ESL) classes within the school, one girl asserted, “I love the fact that we have it here and it’s offered and I just think that if the kids could have some kind of stronghold that makes them intertwine with all the others ... It just needs a bit of work to make students fully understand our culture and our country.”While in this statement she clearly wants to understand and accept the other, she envisages primarily a one-way change, a kind of assimilation of the other into her culture.Yet the intertwining metaphor she uses holds potential for increasing understanding in both directions.Her comment recognizes a need for students to see interaction as important if school is to become a place where vital social understanding and border crossing occurs. 

Using the ‘we’ vs. ‘they’ construction of discourse that has framed our discussion, one boy described an experiment he and some friends conducted on some Asian students from this secondary school.“We tried this thing in science where we went up to Asian girls and asked if we could borrow a pen and they had all these clear bags so you could see that they had a million pens; but they all said, 'No, I don’t have one.'I couldn’t understand it.I have Asian friends and I like them a lot.”Here, the exercise served to highlight the extent of the rigidity of the social barriers, although the student finished his comment with a kind of transposition of his own, in which he affirmed an occasional social and emotional affiliation with the ‘other.’

An activity in the inner city elementary school appears to provide an example of the kind of interaction that was sought by the students from the secondary school, for although it was designed to help one group of students to feel a sense of belonging within the school, it in fact led disparate groups of students to “intertwine.”First Nations students constitute almost half of this small school’s student population of approximately 240 students.Many, however, had been experiencing difficulty with school -- attendance was poor, students were often late, and a number were not achieving well academically.During the 1994-1995 school year, in an attempt to address the needs of these students, the faculty introduced Cree drumming into the school.Under the guidance of one of the teachers, students would actually sit in the front foyer and drum other students into school during the first 15 minutes of the school day.

In this specific cultural situation, although originally conceived as a way of increasing on-time arrival at classes, drumming helped to reduce the boundaries between 'we' and 'they'.Students who chose to participate, largely, but not exclusively, First Nations students, began the instructional day with eight students at a time gathered around the large Cree drum, holding drumsticks and singing and chanting loudly and enthusiastically while the teacher used hand signals to have them soften or slow their drumming or to increase the beat.Asian and Caucasian students joined with First Nations students in the chanting and drumming.

One evening the school sponsored a pow-wow at which professional drummers drummed uninterrupted in the gym throughout the evening.The master of ceremonies invited the audience, students and adults from this school community and from a visiting suburban school, to participate.Although those who actually danced were primarily First Nations students, occasionally some from other ethnic groups also joined in.Thus, the infectious power of the drumming (cf. Pillsbury, 1996) served to invite, at least temporarily, those who had been outsiders into a more encompassing 'we.'A comment from a Vietnamese parent provides evidence.She stated that when she saw how carefully the school attended to the needs of the First Nations students through drumming, she could “be confident that it would also treat the culture and needs of [her] daughter with respect.”

An interview segment from a college basketball study serves as our final example of an occasion when ‘we’ becomes broad enough to include ‘they.’Consider the response of Julia, a co-captain, when asked about her reactions immediately following her team’s loss to its arch rival.After mentioning that she had encouraged a teammate, she continued:

I don't think I talked to anybody ... I talked to a lot of the Jeff U. players, to the Jeff U. Coach at the reception.I almost went to Jeff U. ... Yeah, so I know Coach Wilson pretty well and a couple of players and a couple of players who graduated and so I … went in and had a chat with Coach Wilson and talked to her for awhile.It's kind of interesting when they come.I think, "Well, what if it had been the other way around.What if I had been playing for them and we had been playing Huntington, but I actually never regretted the decision to be at the University.

What happens in the brevity of these words is significant.Julia tentatively tries on membership in the rival group, making them into her hypothetical ‘we,’ thus converting her present team to a hypothetical ‘they.’Her imaginative and hypothetical reversal of the situation provides the impetus for her to wonder what the situation might be should the roles be reversed – a situation that appears to stimulate some introspection and self-reflection.

Although we have been presenting situations in which barriers have been examined, and in part, reduced or eliminated, not all separations are undesirable.Rather than spotlight and thereby diminish an “out” group, teachers can use a temporary separation to generate the distance needed to adopt a critical perspective on the “in” group, the implied 'we'.One incident exemplifies the potentially productive effect of such a separation that may in fact lead to an increased respect for difference.A kindergarten teacher asked for examples of non-living things.One boy responded, "Indians."Here, the teacher used the separation of groups implied in the student response to create a gently critical perspective."No,” she replied, "Stacy [a student in the class] is part Native-American.They are still alive.Sometimes we think they lived a long time ago."Momentarily separating Stacy and Native-Americans from the community of the classroom did not so much create an out-group as it encouraged the students to look a bit more critically at themselves as a group and their misconceptions.

Developing Meaning and Understanding from the Vignettes

The vignettes presented so far have demonstrated a range of conceptions of self and other, from rigidity and exclusivity to fluidity and interchange.In this section, we begin to examine some of the conditions that enable and promote the movement inherent in the latter and discuss their implications for educators wanting to foster the development of schools as communities of difference.We return to the account of Julia as a starting point for uncovering how movement in representations of self and others may occur.

When Julia reflects on what it might have been like if her situation had been reversed and she had played ball for the other team, she opens the possibility of reforming boundaries and of situating herself alternatively; her group boundaries of 'we' and 'they' are not discarded; rather, she continues to form and reform them.These boundaries are now fluid and the limits they create appear temporary and thus not as obstructive as they had been.Similarly, the non-First Nation participants in the Cree drumming or pow-wow dancing may have temporarily increased their own self-awareness by extending themselves into an activity of the other.We note the absence of such flexibility and permeability in the previously noted educators’ conceptions of the inner city 'at-risk' parent group at the small elementary school, in the action of the first grade teacher requiring the four little boys to sit out the contrived recess experience, or in the smorgasbord teacher’s conception of his students.

In contrast to such unyielding stances, Julia’s ability to exchange perspectives is all the more remarkable given the intensity of emotions she and her teammates expressed in this contest.The previous year, her Huntington team had had to share the conference championship with Jefferson University.As a result, Huntington had come to define the Jeff U team as their arch rivals and many of the preparations during the season had been specifically designed to help win the two games against this team.Prior to describing the game, Julia spoke of the Jeff U team, repeatedly referring both to the team and its location as ‘other’:

[We've] never beaten them there and it's very difficult to beat them there.The refs are very bad there and the fans are real obnoxious.... It would be a big deal to me to beat them there, ... but I check myself because ...well, I don't want to let the whole thing depend upon whether we beat Jeff U at Jeff U because so many things go into that.... There's a lot of things that I can't control...

Julia's anxiety about that team colors her characterizations of the entire community.Her frequent use of the locator "there" actively and forcefully distances herself from that group and community.The referees are "bad" and the fans "obnoxious." Her feelings are so strong and compelling that she must restrain herself from allowing these feelings to consume her and hanging the worth of the season on the outcome of just these two games.She installs the separation between herself and other so vehemently that we might expect her to be firmly anchored in the team's 'we'.Yet, within moments of saying those words, Julia is able to effect the translocation of self we saw in the earlier quote.

What qualities in Julia, in others, or in the situations themselves enable such a switch in perspectives?Several characteristics of the vignettes we have presented offer clues about the forces at work that both enable and constrain the respondents’ ability to see through the eyes of the other.We note the potential impact of what might be termed “social constraints” on the ability of the participants in our vignettes to engage in movement between self and other.Loyalty may be just one of many attributes which constrain movement and erect barriers to the respect and understanding necessary for a community of difference to exist.For example, in the case of the Canadian secondary school described earlier, social constraints seemed to be expressed in the form of appearing to have the correct group allegiance, particularly with respect to use of language or place.Yet, some respondents expressed concern over students who persisted in speaking Mandarin in front of them even though they had been in school together since early elementary school.“You know they can speak English better than you can, they get better marks than you and they’re speaking Mandarin; it really makes me angry.”In fact, it was the perception that language was being used in order to erect social barriers that angered the Caucasian students.

Julia, before admitting to talking to members of the opposing team, says, “I don’t think I talked to anybody” but goes on to claim she “talked with a lot of “ the Jeff U players and the coach.Perhaps we should caution against reading too much into this comment.A critic might say the statement is not a knowledge claim of any sort, but rather a conversation filler while she arrives at a more substantive train of thought.Or perhaps the denial results from interpreting the question as “Who on your team did you talk to?The comment seems to reflect a focus of attention temporarily limited to her team so that immediately after a game only teammates are possible 'anybodies'.Yet, one further alternative is informative because it highlights the social constraints that may color transposition of perspective between self and other.The denial may well represent a hesitancy to admit to talking to these ‘others.’Part of our folk understanding of self is that it takes time to switch mental gears.Certainly Julia might portray herself in an unseemly light if, without a proper transition period, she were immediately able to converse with the opponents.

Despite the power of social constraints, we have identified several factors that seem to encourage movement between ‘we’ and ‘they.’Notice first the hypothetical nature of some of the efforts.Julia endeavors, albeit for a very short period of time, to switch mental and emotional perspectives from self to other: "I think, well, what if it had been the other way around.What if I had been playing for them and we had been playing Huntington?”Students in several of the earlier vignettes who moved towards switching perspectives demonstrated the same ability to engage in hypothetical reflection.Recall the students who attempted to understand the perspective of Asian students:“If I were in their place....” in a foreign country, what would I want?Likewise, the sixth grade student wanting to improve the lot of her school, actually moved the hypothetical further into the realm of the imaginary.As we saw above, she imagines what she would say were she an important politician.In these instances, it may be that the hypothetical nature of the reflection provides a degree of safety that permits the tentative movement towards an ‘other.’ 

Brian, the African American basketball player who called into question the vision of his teammates as they entered a restaurant, wanted in that instance to enlarge or transpose their vision; in another instance, his hypothetical reflection involved a transposition, not of others, but of self.Later in his interview, he recalled seeing the only two black players from an opposing team.These two had not played during the game and afterwards sat quite apart from their teammates:

All I could think of was, ‘Why on earth were they at this school?’ Because of all the [conference] schools they could have gone to... they could have went [sic] to a program that was more suited for them.I mean and now I'm totally stereotyping and guess they were from the inner city environment and they probably played a more up tempo style of basketball and I was thinking, if I had gone to [their school], I could have got my education at Huntington and played anywhere. 

Here it is important to note that shared ethnicity was not sufficient to create, either linguistically or symbolically, a sense of community with these players.Indeed Brian continues to hold the players from an opposing team as a separated 'they'.Rather than serving as a way to enter into their world, Brian's rhetorical question, "Why on earth were they at this school?" serves as a form of criticism that reinforces a separation from them that he acknowledges when he admits to stereotyping them.

Brian’s failure to establish community, even on a hypothetical level, may indicate that movement between ‘we’ and ‘they’ is an inherently risky activity which requires a considerable level of security – a level that perhaps Brian does not feel with his teammates.He does, however, find enough of himself in the situation to embark on further imaginary exploration.What if, he imagines, he were able to attend his present college but play for the Black coach at the other?The encounter does appear to provide the impetus for reflection that preserves the desirable aspects of his present situation and recreates others. 

A second condition that we note in a number of the cases in which boundaries became flexible was the presence of a precipitating thought or event.The kindergarten teacher was responding to a specific student response about "Indians"; drumming was presented as a response to a perceived problem -- student tardiness; Brian entered a segregated restaurant with his teammates; and Jeff U's presence in Huntington's gym caused Julia to reflect, like Robert Frost, on potential experiences not chosen.In some instances, the precipitating event or trigger was deliberate and overt; in others it was a more internalized thought or reflection that apparently made the transposition of perspectives easier or more likely.

Certainly one might argue that precipitating events were just as present in those situations that led to the creation or reinforcement of more rigid boundaries.A faculty workshop in the Native American school seemed to prompt the teacher's smorgasbord analogy; a teacher's perception of acts of misbehavior prompted the first-graders’ unscheduled recess.The critical difference, however, may not be the presence of such events, but the level of awareness of them.Perhaps the ability of those able to engage in a translocation of self stems from a greater degree of self-reflection.In some cases, the level of reflection associated with some degree of movement between ‘we’ and ‘they’ appears to be increased as participants hold positions of responsibility, particularly those in which students find themselves in the position of having to represent their group to others. 

Julia's feelings of responsibility for her team took a number of forms. As co-captain of the team, she began a players’ only pre-game retreat before each game, led warm-ups, systematically publicly assessed the team's play during time-outs, and taught the team new plays throughout the season.In her retelling of the Jeff U game, her sense of responsibility for the actions of her teammates come out clearly in her description of the post-game reception.

Again nobody was social.... One of the few things Coach and I agree on is that when you go to these receptions, no matter win or lose, the classiest way to deal with those is to be social with the other team, with the other coaches, with the parents.You don't sit in the corner and eat.And plus it's more enjoyable that way.It's more fun that way. ... We had one team lined up sitting down on one side and half of their team lined up sitting on the other side and I was just like, ‘Argg!’, you know...I guess maybe it's hard for some people but you'd think after a couple of years... You're dealing with people that are doing the same things you're doing.It's pretty easy to find things to talk about.

The responsibility she felt toward the team separated her from her teammates, serving a function analogous to the kindergarten teacher's temporary separation of Stacy from her non-Aboriginal classmates.In order to represent the team to outsiders, she had, to a limited extent, to adopt their perspective on her team.In other words, she had to embrace both perspectives at once.Such an inclusive perspective helped to preclude unreflective immersion in her teammates' experience.She achieved a reflective stance towards the community, a stance that recognized and sought to overcome the segregation of teams.

Here again a precipitating event, the post-game reception, likely encouraged the transformation of perspective.But it is also Julia’s sense of responsibility which, as she includes students from the rival team into her conversation circle, in some sense serves to unite inherently oppositional viewpoints, at least temporarily, into an inclusive 'we'.

In our other examples of movement from 'they' to 'we', we also found acceptance of responsibility helping to draw lines of connection, influence and interdependence between self and others.Students, of all ethnic backgrounds who took responsibility for morning drumming were observed more frequently than others embracing friendships beyond their own classroom or ethnic group.Brian, also, in his capacity as captain of his team expressed his acceptance of this responsibility by endeavoring to enlarge his teammates' perspectives.Even the sixth grader mentioned earlier, although misrepresenting herself and her peers not only as poorer, but also as less smart than students in wealthier schools, sought some measure of responsibility for her peers by imagining herself as a politician.

In contrast, neither the math teacher who prepared a smorgasbord for Native American students nor the first-grade teacher who called an unscheduled recess appeared to accept responsibility to engage in an educative role with others; rather by their words and actions, they held a group of others separate and distant from themselves.While both might disavow the notion, their actions suggest they sought, in part, to keep the other from having any bearing on themselves.In fact, in the former case, in what we perceive to be an ironic (and perhaps ultimately highly responsible) decision, rejection of responsibility to the group ultimately led to the teacher’s decision to leave teaching.In the latter, the poignant aspect of the situation is that the teacher did not appear to be aware of the overt message she was communicating.In her attempt to convey to the boys a message that misbehavior brings undesirable consequences, her chosen course of action demonstrated, in our opinion, the undesirable consequence, not of misbehavior, but of another’s representation of such behavior.Here, representation of part of the group, ‘we,’ to the other part, ‘they,’ resulted in the creation, rather than the reduction of a barrier.

Implications for Educators

Our data have suggested that ‘we’ vs.’they’ constructions are easily found throughout the education system.We have identified instances when such constructions erect permanent, rigid barriers and others when the barriers appear more temporary and permeable.Where we have found considerable rigidity of perspective, often (but not exclusively) in situations where different cultures have come into contact with one another, we have also found, constructions of 'we' and 'they' which serve to perpetuate racism and discrimination.Locating blame and fault within specific groups of 'they,' thereby separating the other from self appears unfortunately, to be too common a practice.Thus, oppositional ‘we’ - ‘they' identities frequently established impermeable barriers; but, as we have seen in this paper, it is the degree of inflexibility, rather than the constructions themselves which create the greatest problems.

Our analysis of a variety of incidents, with particular emphasis on how movement suggesting the possibility of border crossing occurred in some of them, holds some implications for educators who may wish to make conscious efforts to encourage movement between constructions of ‘we’ and ‘they.’ 

We have found, consistent with the suggestion of the secondary school student, that where students “have some kind of stronghold that makes them intertwine” 'with each other, some movement towards a more fluid conception of ‘we’ and ‘they’ occurs.Temporarily grouping and regrouping students to achieve the perspective needed for critical reflection as the kindergarten teacher did holds this potential.Likewise, we have seen strongholds created through drumming, pow-wow dancing, and basketball.As the student observed, it “needs a bit of work to make students fully understand”; however, we believe that our data have demonstrated that the work may be worthwhile.Finding ways for students to interact in a variety of settings and facilitating intertwining rather than accepting the status quo of separate parking, smoking areas, and seating arrangements, for example, may be one way to help them understand the invisible and important aspects of the social construction of school life (Anderson, 1990).Further, had the teachers of the inner city school provided opportunity for interaction between teachers and parents, rather than merely having the teachers provide a meal for the parents, some movement might also have been noted there. 

We have noted several elements of successful movement that may provide starting points from which educators might work.These included engaging in compelling hypothetical reflection, making explicit the impetus of a precipitating event for movement towards reconceptualization of self, and recognizing the role of responsibility in drawing that connection.All three of these can help students begin the process of identifying with the ‘other.’

We have identified the use of hypothetical reflection as a potentially safe and certainly temporary way of beginning the movement towards overcoming rigidity of barriers in order to accomplish the self-awareness advocated by Mead (1932) and later by other writers previously cited (Crapanzano, 1990; Ochs, 1990; Ricouer, 1992).For at least some of our participants, the hypothetical reflection may have been a first step towards understanding Buber’s (1958) I - Thou relationship which we posit as fundamental for a community of difference.Indeed, we have examined at some length examples of how this type of activity has fostered at least tentative and partial relocation of self and dislocation of barriers.Helping students, through discussion, role play, intentional reversals of situations and the like to understand what it feels like to ‘walk in another’s shoes’ are pedagogical strategies we suggest could intentionally and explicitly foster border crossing.

The importance of precipitating events or triggers has been noted by a number of theorists of educational change (Fullan, 1993; Tichy & Devanna, 1986).In addition, recent perspectives, such as Wheatley’s (1993) application of aspects from chaos theory and other sciences to organizational life, suggest that although it is not possible to control human behavior, it is important to develop an understanding of patterns, and further, to try to identify the triggers which will precipitate a change in the formation of such patterns.Our investigation suggests that educators who make use of triggers in order to help others change patterns of thought or behavior may also help in the reduction of barriers.

Giroux (1997) posits that representations of ourselves -- either self-representations or depictions by others -- shape our understanding of self.We have found that giving students opportunities to take some responsibility, not only to a given group, but for representing the group to others, fosters potential for movement.In other words, the opportunity for students to accept and engage in leadership responsibilities may encourage reflection upon how a given group should be described vis-à-vis the oppositional ‘other.’Our examples of movement related to responsibility have been associated with leadership in sports or drumming, and suggest that further research to investigate the relationship between responsibility in a variety of settings and movement in conceptions of self and others is warranted.

Related to the representation of oneself or one’s group to others is the issue of perceptions of correct social posture in one’s identification.We have identified the potential for social constraints to impinge on one’s willingness to explicitly recognize such movement away from a distinct ‘we’ and toward ‘they.’Again, explicit exploration of the presence of these invisible and often unrecognized constraints could help students to overcome the tendency of over-identification of their own group as acceptable and the other as ‘obnoxious’ (as Julia described it at one point).Such conscious and critical exploration and discussion might also help secondary school students understand why Asian students who speak fluent English choose to speak Mandarin, and conversely, how this choice affects English speaking peers, and indeed, the development of a sense of community within the school.We therefore suggest that, like the kindergarten teacher described in this paper, educators take seriously the notion of the teachable moment, attempt to make use of identifiable triggers, attend to the interpretive process engulfing such triggers, and foster opportunities for students to take responsibility for others.

One promising method for directing students to increase the possibility of conceptual shifts is, of course, open, responsive, and serious discussion.In an attempt to determine whether conscious discussion about self and others could be productive in fostering student reflection and growth, one of the authors led a conversation with a class of first graders.He queried, “Is it wrong to call a bunch of people ‘they’?During the conversation, one student asked, “What if someone said, ‘We’re playing by ourselves?’”After two intervening statements, a little girl reflected, “Umm, like, we’re playing by ourselves so you can’t play.”As they explored this issue, a boy said softly, almost to himself, “Oh no, don’t say that you can’t play.”Shortly thereafter, another boy, recognizing the potential for hurt, asked, “But how are you going to describe someone else without saying 'they'”?Therein lies the problem, clearly delineated by first-graders.A girl continued, “When you say ‘they,’ it’s like … ‘they’ is different and whenever we say ‘we’ it’s not different.”This example of a conversation in which the use of language was explicitly explored with first graders suggests that such an activity holds considerable potential for heightening awareness and raising sensitivity on the part of students, even among those who are very young.As these children began to recognize, it is not that the use of ‘we’ or ‘they’ is inherently right or wrong; rather, it is how a comment is framed and what sense of self or other is being represented which is important. 

Consider the potential such a discussion might have in the examples presented above, in thoughts about students not being hungry for knowledge, parents needing new couches to be willing to enter the school, the perception that the African American child was treated differently from her peers, or the sixth-grader's assumption that the poor needed something from richer ‘others.’In each case, using these statements as a trigger for critical reflection and discussion might have helped to develop a shared understanding of what constitutes the invisible construction of barriers to the development of community (Anderson, 1990).It would definitely have helped to dispel some of the inaccuracies of the constructions of ‘we’ and ‘they,’ perhaps leading to the softening of rigidities and increasing the potential for border crossing.

Conclusion

In this preliminary examination, we have suggested that it is important to reject the temptation to create barriers to community by relegating blame to a distant ‘other.’We have identified the importance of critical reflection to prompt movement between self and other.We have posited the importance of creating what a student called ‘strongholds’ that encourage students to intertwine, of enhancing opportunities for students to take responsibility for representing themselves and their groups to others, of explicit recognition and discussion of a precipitating event or trigger, and of enhancing self-awareness both through the creative use of imagination and hypothetical situations and through dialogue.We have further demonstrated that such dialogue has the potential to encourage analysis and critique and to increase understanding of how our concepts and language may overtly or covertly create barriers and borders to community.

Our initial goal in this paper was to investigate how, through behavior and language, concepts of ‘we’ and ‘they’ are socially constructed.We have suggested that, in many cases, rather than any permanent sense of encompassing inclusion, it may be the possible unimpeded movement of members into otherness or others into inclusion we must seek.Through careful examination of both transitional experiences and the obstacles to such, we have begun to understand how and when such movement opens the boundaries of community and enables the critique and self-correction requisite for the creation of communities that embrace diversity.Much additional research is needed into conceptions of ‘we’ and ‘they,’ in which distance or proximity, rigidity or permeability, paralysis or movement are identified and analyzed. 

Attention to the possibility of border crossing, through an increased understanding of linguistic and social constructions of self and other, holds one possible key to help us to move beyond an understanding of community as a collection of I’s coming together in a like-minded ‘we’ with similar values, beliefs, and practices (Sergiovanni, 1994).Rather, a recognition of and respect for difference is inherent in the more positive of the experiences we have analyzed.Thus, we posit that careful and explicit consideration of the constitution and reconstitution of ‘we’ and ‘they’ within educational communities holds potential for creating communities of difference (Shields & Seltzer, 1997; Tierney, 1993) or of otherness (Furman, 1996).In turn, this may help us to overcome the exclusivity and prejudice of community when more narrowly defined.Providing experiences in school intentionally directed toward this end may be a vehicle for helping students to embark on lifelong, shared journeys of border crossing. 



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ENDNOTES



[1][1]Authors' names are listed alphabetically to indicate equal contribution to the paper. 
[2]Here, of course, success was defined narrowly in terms of mean scores on standardized tests, despite recognition by all concerned of test bias, and test limitations.
[3] One finds close connections between the movement between self and other described here and Dewey’s (1916) conception of a democratic disposition as one of nurturing ever-increasing circles of influence upon the self: An “alert and expanding mental life depends upon an ever increasing range of contact …(p. 86) and “interest, concern, mean that self and world are engaged with each other in a developing situation” (p. 126). 
[4]The term is used in Canada to refer to groups commonly spoken of in the United States as American Indians or Native Americans.